Everyone Needs Encouragement

everyone needs encouragementHave you ever been in a situation in which you felt that a couple of words of encouragement from anyone would have made a difference in your day, your results or even your life?

If so, you are not alone.  Truth is, everyone needs encouragement. As the social beings that we are, we all need the recognition and support that encouragement offers us, especially in times of distress.

Encouragement can raise our spirit at anytime but especially when we are going through frustration and have been feeling like giving up.

One of the saddest things is that when most of us are considering giving up, it’s a sign that we may be just about to find the solution to a difficulty or a way around the problem at hand. So imagine how much a couple of words can do!

This is why an uplifting and encouraging comment can mean the difference between failure or success to the receiver. In this way, we can be the contributors to the other person’s success even if not obvious at first. This also relates to the fact that a discouraged person cannot think rationally, especially if they have been on the same situation for a while. They may feel trapped and out of solutions.

However, a couple of words of encouragement can lift that veil of defeat and open up an alternative solution that they hadn’t thought of. We call this “having an aha! moment” which has more of a possibility to happen when the person’s feelings and emotions shift due to a word of encouragement. It’s like the cognitive part of the brain opens up and starts thinking rationally again.

And encouragement goes way beyond that. One thing not too many people consider is that when one offers a word of encouragement to a person going through a hardship, not only the receiver benefits but the giver as well. Something magical and symbiotic happens between the two. This is due to reciprocity as suggested by the law of attraction and karmic laws.

In life and in general, we receive in the same proportion to what we give, and encouragement is no exception. Think about it in this way:  When you offer encouragement, you are giving something positive of yourself. Your positive words are packed with good vibe and energy that will make you feel good as well. Perhaps you relate because at some level you understand what the other person is going through. Maybe you have been in a similar situation yourself, so you feel kind and compassionate. You are showing your humanity. All of these are “feel-good” emotions that can make your day as well.

Moreover, when you encourage a friend, you strenghten the friendship, and even when you encourage a stranger, you open the possibility to start a new friendship. At the end, everyone benefits.

One last thought… you will likely need a word of encouragement at some time in the future and as such, if you have been kind to give, you are deemed to receive as well. As such, encouragement can turn us into encouragers as we develop our empathy toward others, and this symbiotic exchange can have a positive impact in both parties, now and in the future.

As they say, words are powerful. Using them to uplift someone is a powerful way to use them. Can you remember a time in your life when your words of encouragement had a positive impact on a person? How did it affect you? Please share of your experience. Thank you!


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3 Responses to Everyone Needs Encouragement

  1. Peter March 13, 2017 at 5:35 PM #

    “When most of us are considering giving up, it’s a sign that we may be just about to find the solution to a difficulty…” This is so very true. It’s happened to me more than once. Thanks for the great reminder and motivation!

  2. Tara March 19, 2017 at 2:00 AM #

    My sister lost her job about a week ago. Your article was like godsent for me to remember how much she needs me. She and I are good friends but we live about 3 hours away so it’s difficult to see each other often. I will call her right now to give her a word or two of encouragement. Thanks for this article!

    • Tammy March 21, 2017 at 2:05 AM #

      So sorry to hear about your sister, Tara. I’m glad to hear that this article helped. Remind her that better ‘opportunity’ doors will open up for her. She’s lucky to have a sister like you!

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